Our "Normal" Homeschool Day

>> Sunday, March 30, 2008

Home Education Week continues.

Describe yourself, your family or one of your children. What is it like to be home educated in your family? What is “normal” for you?

Normal-huh? I can't quite put my finger on it, but I'll give it a good shot.

Tim rises and shines around 4 AM. He does his stuff and then treks across our backyard to his office. He works best EARLY. However, the "teacher" requires a bit more sleep (especially now that we have a brand new king-sized pillow top Simmons Beauty Rest--major thanks to our church family). So I rise and shine around 7. I have struggled with the discipline of getting up early (5-6 AM) to have some "me" time. But the family has discovered that when I get enough sleep, our days are much smoother and Mom is much happier. One happy Mom equals six happy kids.

I make breakfast, help the little ones get dressed, and start the laundry while the kids get busy on their chores. Breakfast is usually served around 8:00, at which time we call Papa home from the office. After breakfast, Tim and I like to play a few games of cards while the kids finish up their chores and get ready for school. After I lose 3 games of cards, Tim heads back to his office (or whatever he has lined up for the day) and we get going on school.

Justin (17), Matthew(13), and Cayla(10) work independently, most of the time. Justin and Matthew both do school in their rooms. They have their own desks...their space. Cayla likes to work out at the kitchen table with Lucas(6), Katie(3) and I. Although if it gets too loud she will move into the living room or onto our bed. Larah goes down for a nap around 10 and this is the time I do school with Lucas and Katie.

Lunch is between noon and one. Then it's clean up and back to school...until school is done for the day. Sometimes the kids have after school chores, sometimes they don't. I try to have a family, sit down dinner and more often than not, we succeed. Every night before bed, we have our Family Time. During Family Time we close out one day and begin a new a day by reading the Word, praying, memorizing the book of Hebrews, and worshipping. It is the absolute best part of our day. There is nothing like being together as a family at the end/beginning of the day with our Lord.

That pretty much sums up our "normal" school day. Now here is a brief summary on our "normal" kids.

Justin has committed to finishing two years in one. He plans on enrolling in the Running Start Program at our local community college in the fall. This will give him college credit while still obtaining his high school diploma through Christian Liberty Academy. Most of his days are spent huddled at his desk working continuously on deadlines. He is doing exceptionally well with his subjects. Huge improvement over last year. You go, Boy!

Matthew is totally self-motivated. He, following the lead of his dad, likes to get up early and get his stuff done. It really bothers him to have down time, time where nothing is being accomplished. Matthew (AKA: MADDOG) completes all but one subject by himself...he and Cayla do history together. In his free time, he likes to take his sisters on walks, jump on the trampoline, and hang out with friends.

Cayla loves school. She is awesome at math and reading, but her passion is drawing horses. She is wonderful at teaching the younger kids. She and Katie are creating a book from old magazines, alphabet letters and numbers. I call Cayla my little mom because she can do practically everything I can...from changing diapers to cooking a meal. She is a very kind, sweet and beautiful 10-year old. I love to listen to her pray. She is her Papa's Princess.

Lucas is well into 1st grade. He has finished the first four Explode the Code books, is on lesson 70 in Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons, and is almost done with Saxon 1st grade math. He goes to a friend's house each week for science and really enjoys the hands on activities. Lucas likes school but would much rather be outside playing or holding his baby sister, Larah. He is an incredible big brother.

Katie is our energetic preschooler. School for her consists of recognizing letters and numbers, doing her workbook, and doing "logic" with Papa. She loves to color and glue craft sticks together. She can come up with some pretty amazing pieces of art that she likes to give away. Katie is her Papa's Puddin' Pie.

Larah's days are full of hugs, "no's", walks, toys and anything else baby. She takes one nap, usually 2-3 hours. She loves to watch for her Papa to come through the back door. She plays peek-a-boo and "Where's Larah?" Although only 1, she is a huge part of our homeschooling day. And Larah is her Papa's Punkin' Noodle.

There is a description of our "normal" day with our "normal" kids. I'm sure to a lot of people we are not so normal, and that's okay...I wouldn't change a thing. I consider myself to have the best job in the world...caring, nurturing, teaching, training, discipling and enjoying the best kids in the world.

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Life Before Homeschooling

Dana, over at Principled Discovery, is celebrating Home Education Week and has encouraged fellow bloggers to join in to share some stories. Today's topic is Life Before Homeschooling and here is our story.

We began homeschooling 8 years ago and it has been absolutely amazing...challenging at times, but still amazing. When we started homeschooling Justin was 9, Matthew 5, and Cayla 3. Justin had gone to public school from Kindergarten through 3rd grade. After his 3rd grade year, we moved from Texas to Washington...and that is where it began.

While living in Texas, Tim worked full-time and finished his Bachelor's degree. I worked part-time (Tuesdays and Thursdays) at a Mother's Day Out and babysat the other three days. I also took some college night classes. We had 3 small children and our life was busy. Looking back, we didn't know that life could be different. We lived what we knew.

My days were busy taking care of other people's children. I was hurried, tired, and frustrated. I was giving my time and energy to other children when I should have been giving them to my own. And to be truthfully honest, I don't really like working with other people's children. I know that sounds heartless, but I believe it is a special calling to work with children (other than one's own) and I have never personally experienced that calling. I can love other people's kids all day long, as long as I am not responsible for them.

After some time, God had other plans for us. In 2000, He called our family to move from Marshall, Texas to Randle, Washington. This was when and where we made the transition from public school to homeschool. The first few years were trying, as I had never embarked on such an adventure. I doubted myself and felt very insecure. But as I continued to draw my strength and confidence from the Lord, He began to show me new and glorious things. Homeschooling became easier and I began to feel as though things were being accomplished.

Here we are today. Justin is 17, Matthew 13, Cayla 10, Lucas 6 and Katie 3. Larah (14 months old) is the baby in our homeschool, and she thrives just by being with her brothers and sisters. We by no means have the perfect homeschool but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Our family wakes up together. We spend our days together. We enjoy our evenings together. We are rich with God's treasures.

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Home Education Week

>> Thursday, March 27, 2008

Dave Heineman is the governor of the state of Nebraska. I have just today learned of this man, and I like him already. On March 13, 2008, he signed a proclamation declaring the week of March 30-April 5 Nebraska Home Education Week. It is a week set aside to honor and recognize home education in Nebraska.

Here is the proclamation:

WHEREAS, The State of Nebraska desires to promote excellence in education; and

WHEREAS, Dozens of studies confirm that children who are educated at home score significantly above average on national achievement tests; and

WHEREAS, Studies demonstrate that home-educated students excel in college; and

WHEREAS, Home education has a long history of success in this country, helping to produce such notable Americans as George Washington, Thomas Jefferson,James Madison, John Quincy Adams, Patrick Henry, Benjamin Franklin, John Jay, John Marshall, Abraham Lincoln, Robert E. Lee, Stonewall Jackson, Booker T. Washington, Thomas Edison, William Henry Harrison, John Tyler, Theodore Roosevelt, Woodrow Wilson, Franklin Roosevelt,Mark Twain, Irving Berlin, Rembrandt Peale, George Patton, Douglas MacArthur, John J. Pershing, Standing Bear, Roscoe Pound, Edward Creighton, Willa Cather, William Jennings Bryan and Bertram Goodhue, architect of the Nebraska State Capitol; and

WHEREAS, Home education strengthens the family and promotes the highest standards of honesty and morality, which are essential elements in the preservation of a free society; and

WHEREAS, Home education promotes good citizenship and positive socialization; and

WHEREAS, The State of Nebraska recognizes the fundamental right of parents to direct the education and upbringing of their children; and

WHEREAS, Home educators view the cost of their children’s education as their own responsibility and do not add that cost to the burden of the state; and

WHEREAS, It is appropriate that home educators be recognized and commended for their dedication to excellence in education and for their significant and vital contributions to our society.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, Dave Heineman, Governor of the State of Nebraska, DO HEREBY PROCLAIM the week of March 30 – April 5, 2008, as NEBRASKA HOME EDUCATION WEEK and I do hereby urge all citizens to take due note of the observance.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have here unto set my hand, and cause the Great Seal of the State of Nebraska to be affixed this Thirteenth day of March, in the year of our Lord Two Thousand Eight.

The governor of Florida, Charlie Crist, signed a similar proclamation on the 29th day of February. It is the second time Governor Charlie Crist has done this. Click here to read about it. This excites and encourages me, especially in light of the recent homeschool happenings in California.

I don't reside in either Florida or Nebraska, but I am thankful that those states are standing up for home education. Thank you Governor Dave Heineman and Governor Charlie Crist for believing in your people and thank you for your dedication to the family. My hope and prayer is that the great State of Washington will follow these incredible examples.

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Bad Hair Day

>> Wednesday, March 26, 2008

My friend, Kendra, just wrote a blog entry on kids helping out around the house. I agree with her 100%. Older kids can be so helpful to the upkeep of the home...and very well they should. But what happens when a determined, adorable 14-month old wannabe insists on helping? Should I allow her to participate? Or should I just take her on a stroll to the bathroom and fix the bad hair? Hmmmm...I think I'll go for the latter.

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Gifts from the Heart

Cayla, Katie and Larah took a walk yesterday to a friend's house to let out her dog. On their way home they picked me this beautiful bouquet of springtime flowers. I wait with anticipation for the many other bouquets I will be given this spring. Being the recipient of such gifts brings immense joy to my days, especially on days like today...it is snowing.

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Via Dolorosa

>> Tuesday, March 25, 2008

This is a video of my friend, Lisa, taken on Good Friday. Lisa and I have known each other since the 5th grade. She lives in Corpus Christi...just a bit too far away. She is a beautiful person, inside and out. This video brought tears to my eyes. Gosh, I miss that girl. (Go to sidebar and turn off music)


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Goldrush Chicken @ Claim Jumpers

>> Friday, March 21, 2008

My dinner last night was extraordinary. "Margaret" and I ate at Claim Jumpers in the Clackamas Town Center. She had steak. I opted for chicken. My meal was absolutely amazing.

Goldrush Chicken
A Double Chicken Breast Topped with a Sour Cream Mushroom Onion Sauce and Mozzarella. Served with Mashed Potatoes, Roasted Vegetables and Buttermilk Biscuit.

WOW!
It was incredible.
It was scrumptious.
The list goes on...
Divine
Succulent
Exquisite
Sapid
Juicy
Heavenly
Mouthwatering
Saporous

Goldrush Chicken at Claim Jumpers was unbelievably marvelous. When Tim and I reach our goal of being debt-free, this will be the restaurant where I will chose to celebrate. Wanna join us?

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New Again

>> Saturday, March 15, 2008

By Brad Paisley and Sara Evans
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Listening...or Just Hearing?

This is what took place in our home early this morning.

Tim was standing at the counter by the stove, I was sitting at my computer checking my email, and my 13-year old son, sleepily, appeared in the kitchen.

I said, "Good morning, Matthew."

He said, "Hi Mom. May I go take a shower?"

I acknowledged Matthew's presence and said, "Sure."

Matthew went off to take a shower. Tim continued to stand at the counter. I continued to check my email. A few minutes later, while listening to the shower water running, I turned to Tim and asked, "Who is in the shower? I didn't even know anybody else was up?"

He, completely confused, turned to me and asked, "Are you serious?"

I, completely confused on why he would ask me if I was serious, replied, "Yeah. Why are you asking me if I am serious?"

He then proceeded to tell me that I was the one who told Matthew he could take a shower.

I was in utter disbelief. I heard Matthew. I even responded to Matthew. But I did not listen to Matthew.

About a month ago, God showed me, through my daughter Cayla, that when I am on the computer, I am oblivious to all that goes on around me. God gave me another gentle reminder this morning through my husband and son. I do not want to be such a person. My desire is to listen to my children and to my husband, and ultimately, to my God.

I am continuously amazed at how God uses circumstances and timing to teach me things. I am currently reading a book by Gary L. Thomas called Sacred Parenting: How Raising Children Shapes Our Souls. The back cover of the book states: "Sacred Parenting is unlike any other book you have ever read. This is not a "how-to" book that teaches you ways to discipline your kids or help them achieve their full potential. Instead of discussing how parents can change their kids, Sacred Parenting turns the tables and demonstrates how God uses our kids to change us."

"Thank you, Heavenly Father, for being faithful. Thank you for my wonderful children and loving husband. Thank you for being my teacher and thank you for using my children to shape my soul. I praise You for books like Sacred Parenting that can cause me to grow closer to You and closer to those I love. May this lesson that I have been taught never be forgotten."

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