Breeder or Blessed?
>> Sunday, June 10, 2007
Several months ago I read an article in a well-known christian magazine about children. My memory in general is lacking but I do remember one thing...reading the term "breeder". I read on further in this article and concluded that Tim and I are "breeders". I don't get offended, as a matter of fact, it doesn't even bother me. It does, however, sadden me. Reading a magazine is just that...reading a magazine. It is an article on a piece of paper, written by someone I don't know, and more than likely will never meet. But a couple week ago Tim was at a home here in Randle. He was being introduced to someone new and the person introducing him stated..."This is Tim Walker...he's a breeder...children everywhere." That brought the term closer to home. It made it just a little more real. And it still doesn't bother me...it just saddens me all the more. By hearing this local call my husband a breeder brought forth a challenge to me. To live in Randle and to be a witness, in the area of children, to my community. I love living here and I love my children. I pray that as I live here day to day, at the library, the store, the gas station, the local flower shop, etc...that I would always and forever view my children as a blessing and a delight. And that others would see me doing so. Maybe, just maybe, by God's grace they will change their view...for children truly are a blessing from the Lord!!
Here is a poem a friend shared with me. She is a new friend and I look forward to getting to know her more. She loves her children as I love mine.
5 comments:
Yep-me too, me too! Pick me! I must be a breeder too! It really isn't the term "breeder" that is sad, it is the way it is used, as if it were a bad thing. It isn't! Especially in your case because you breed such wonderful ones! Now we will see if I can actually get this to post properly! Here goes nothin'.
Ha-ha-ha! I did it, I did it! I might conquer my technical challenges yet.
Cool blog, by-the-by.
Just wondering why you are up at 11:50 PM???
Thanks for posting that poem. I'm crying.
You are a more gracious women than I. Oh, I smile and have come up with some pretty savvy, put-'em-in-their-place comebacks, but inwardly the little jabs grate at me.
If I could ever come even a little bit close to being as sweet, kind, and gracious a person as you, friend, I will be thrilled. You show me so much about motherhood that I want to copy. I can't wait to have kids so you can help me not freak out. I love you!
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